{"id":960,"date":"2022-01-24T18:49:40","date_gmt":"2022-01-24T18:49:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/method.derosemeditation.com\/?p=960"},"modified":"2024-09-12T20:49:59","modified_gmt":"2024-09-12T23:49:59","slug":"felicidade-ou-razao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/en\/felicidade-ou-razao\/","title":{"rendered":"To Be Happy or to Be Right"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you want to be happy or do you want to be right? \u2013  as the popular saying goes<br \/>\n\u2063<br \/>\nEvery time we establish some sort of communication, be it in-person, online, via telephone or email, we\u2019re almost always expressing our point of view about something, which, to a greater or a lesser degree, will never completely coincide with the perspective of the person with whom we are communicating.<br \/>\n\u2063<br \/>\nO conflito das percep\u00e7\u00f5es e a sua discuss\u00e3o integram o que chamamos de \u201cliberdade de express\u00e3o\u201d, comportamento caracter\u00edstico dos sistemas democr\u00e1ticos e representa\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00e1xima do exerc\u00edcio da nossa t\u00e3o preciosa individualidade.<\/p>\n<p>\u2063<br \/>\n\u2063<br \/>\nHowever, in practice, we observe Humanity engaged in an endless discussion, with anyone and everyone, in order to impose their point of view, which, of course, is the only correct one (right?).<br \/>\n\u2063<br \/>\nWe fight with our parents, our children, the traffic warden, the driver of the car in front, the cashier at the bank, the flight attendant, our friends and colleagues, in an endless discussion, with the sole purpose of applying justice.  Or, rather, what we consider to be just.<br \/>\n\u2063<br \/>\nWithout changing our mindset, at some point, we\u2019ll be in conflict with eight billion humans, whose understanding of things will always be, to a greater or lesser degree, different to ours.<br \/>\n\u2063<br \/>\nAnd remember, that it\u2019s always up to the more civilised party to initiate reconciliation. It\u2019s up to us to decide to choose this path, negotiating with the millions of versions of \u201cright\u201d that differ from our own, in favour of establishing and maintaining precious and such badly needed good relationships between humans.<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Aline-Daher-5-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3670\" style=\"width:296px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Aline-Daher-5-1.png 900w, https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Aline-Daher-5-1-300x100.png 300w, https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Aline-Daher-5-1-768x256.png 768w, https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Aline-Daher-5-1-18x6.png 18w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Voc\u00ea quer ser feliz ou quer ter raz\u00e3o? \u2013 j\u00e1 dizia o ditado popular.\u2063 \u2063 Todas as vezes em que estabelecemos alguma forma de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, presencial, online, telef\u00f4nica, por email etc., estaremos quase sempre colocando o nosso ponto de vista sobre um tema, e que, num grau maior ou menor, nunca coincidir\u00e1 totalmente com a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":1283,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-960","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/960","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=960"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/960\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1283"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=960"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=960"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/derosemethod.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=960"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}